“Don’t start by hosting a gang bang with 10 hung tops,” Dietrich tells NewNowNext, adding that power bottoms should apply Vitamin E oil directly to their b-hole after an intense sexual encounter.ĭietrich says a power bottom always plans ahead for sex, which requires sacrifice. For tips, I reached out to one of the most talented bottoms I know: adult actor Dolf Dietrich, who recommends a power bottom-in-training start with toys when working your way up in cock size.
But is it really that simple? On a surface level, the answer is yes, but taking on a dominant role in a position that is traditionally considered submissive is easier said than done.Īchieving power bottom status isn’t something that happens overnight. It appears that a power bottom is just a bottom who takes charge of sexual activity. You need to be secure in your ability to take a dick, and that takes lots of practice.” “Even though is fucking you, commands the thrusts,” Erich, 27, tells NewNowNext. In addition, gays believe a power bottom is always ‘prepared,’ will naturally assume the power bottom position (ass up high, back arched), and push back on the dick so that they’re in control. Like Tyler, the gays I spoke to believe power bottoms exude “top energy.” Some popular characteristics are that they tend to be bossy, vocal, and “enthusiastic” about riding dick. This was verified by Tyler ( on Twitter), 30, who says, “What makes me a power bottom is that when I’m riding a guy, I grab him by the throat, spit in his face, and say ‘That’s my dick, little bitch.’” “Tops fuck bottoms, but power bottoms fuck tops,” Dan, 33, tells NewNowNext.
“He navigates the thrusting and dictates how hard the fucking will be.” “A power bottom is someone who knows what he wants and takes control of the penetration,” he tells NewNowNext. Kort estimates that the term originated sometime in the ‘90s. To start, let’s check the internet’s most trusted resource for slang: Urban Dictionary, which defines a power bottom as “similar to a bottom, but a specific variety.” The website continues, “A power bottom tends to be in charge and feels most powerful when bottoming the one who bottoms is the one on the ‘throne’ so to speak, ‘taking’ the top.”